IMPORTANT TIPS

The gap betweem the date of marriage and the engagement date should be short. The long gap will suppose to create some sensitive problems.

HOW TO GET THE INFORMATION

We have to get the information about a boy or girl discreetly. We have to collect the information like family background, character, employment details and circle of friends. We can gather the details from the close friends' circle, relatives and office collegues. If an alliance is from a foreign country, now a days, we have to necessarily engage a detective agency to know the full details. The information should be collected discreetly, as the matter is very sensitive and should be handled carefully.

MATCHING THE HOROSCOPES

Always the matching of horoscopes are not helping us. Mutual love and affection, confidence, give and take policy etc. would make the married life happy.

MATCHING THE HOROSCOPES

Find a good astrologer for matching the horoscopes(if belief is there) from friends, known sources, other advertising agencies, and websites etc. To some extent the astrologer should be reliable.

Get 2 or 3 opinions and in one point, atleast 6 or 7 opinions will match.

THE SANCTITY OF SAPTAPATI

Saptapati is the most important ritual in sastric marriages. The bride's right leg is placed on a grinding stone (Ammi) and the bridegroom holds her toes. The bride is then asked to move seven steps forward to the uttarance of seven mantras.

The mantras are for step 1. unfailing seasonal rains and favourable weather conditions; 2. increase in production of food grains prosperity; step 3. crealing a fervour to observe viratams; step 4. healthy life, free from disease; step.5 cows to yield plenty of milk; step 6. receiving the blessings of the six ruthus; and step 7. blessings of the saptarishis. Let the bride's entry make the day propitious.

Read from a daily news paper advertisement by a famous kalyana seer bakshanam shop from Chennai, India.

THE SECRET OF FUTURE

The secret of our future is hidden in our daily routine.

The above words are read by me somewhere. The words are very meaningful.

TO FIND A SUITABLE AND TRUSTWORTHY ALLIANCE

To get an alliance for a boy or girl, first we have to make note of their conditions, to avoid future controversies.
To advertise in the local newspapaers, magazines, othermarriage agencies and reliable web-sites.
To exchange details orally about the boy or girl, to close relatives and friends. It will help to get lot of contacts.
To register in the marriage alliance agencies.
To register in the web sites for marriage, known sites like Bharat matrimony.com, Tamil matrimony.com and Kalyanamalai.com.

NRIs

NRI Indians: They can expose their ideas and views about the marriage and perform the same accordingly.

A foreign national who intend to marry an Indian should give complete details about themselves and the valid reason of marriage, with an Indian.

In all the above marriages, the consent of the boy and girl is very important. To get better results of the wedding, the boy and girl should know well about each other and exchange their views.

BASIC NEEDS TO PLAN A WEDDING

Find out a trustworthy and suitable alliance (to some extent).
To get a suitable bride or bridegroom in their community or other community (as they wish).
To get the horoscopes.(if belief is there)
To match the horoscopes with the help of astrologers and pandits.
To get the information about the bride or bridegroom discreetly before fixing the marriage.
To fix a date and make arrangements for engagement function.
To fix a budget acoording to the financial position of the parents.
To make arrangements and preparations for the wedding well within the budget. (maximum possible)
To get a happy and satisfied married life, the bride or bridegroom should undergo marriage counselling and medical counselling.(It is better to get some knowledge)
To perform the wedding to the overall satisfaction as planned.

A PERFECT AND COMPLETE GUIDE TO PLAN A WEDDING IN INDIA

This blogspot is created basically to support the Indian as well as NRI performers of south indian wedding in India and abroad, with culture and customs of a marriage.

First we see the basic needs to plan a wedding.